Begin the conversation.
Tell me who you are, what you have in mind, and when. A little thought in the first message goes a long way. I don’t respond to vague inquiries.
ResponseWithin a few days, but could be up to a week if I am travelling. If I don’t respond, please feel free to follow up as sometimes I do miss emails as I receive many. If I still do not respond, read my etiquette to see if you have missed important details.
ScreeningRequired, handled discreetly
NoticeThe more, the better. Same day is rarely possible, though if you are visiting I will try to make it work; two hours minimum.
EtiquetteQuestions, answered
Preferred name
Email double-check for accuracy
Phone optional, only if texts are welcome
Age range
City you are requesting a date in
LinkedIn optional, in place of ID
Date(s) you have in mind or the time of day that usually works best
Duration
Provider references or screening details
One or two providers who will vouch for you, with their website and email. If you have neither, ask me about other screening methods.
How did you find me?
About you, and what experience do you have in mind?
This is the part I read first. Take your time with it.
